There’s a quiet assumption behind most relationships:
That if the feeling is strong enough, everything else will follow.
For idealistic types like INFJ and INFP, they take this to the maximum limit.
But this is where things start to go wrong.
What an INFJ Man Needs in a Relationship: Part 2
Feeling occurs through the sentiments, while understanding occurs through the mentality. Therefore, as we can see, there is a bit of an irony here in this dual requirement of the INFJ man to both be wet and be dry. In fact, I think this is the key to why they are so difficult in relationships.
What an INFJ Man Needs in a Relationship
Intuitive feelers turn every feeling into an abstraction. All idealism involves emotional abstraction to get to the purified ideal, or thing-in-itself, like love or hate, but now cut-off from the environment or outer world where it originated. Maybe it originated in another world, like a Platonic ideal.
Run To The Land of The Rich
So we got our lady who wouldn’t leave. The lady is poor.
Why is she poor?
Because she has placed all her value into another person.
Her solution?
Run to the land of the rich.
The Lady Who Wouldn’t Leave
So last article we were in the process of running away from our problems. And I gave an example of a lady who wouldn’t leave a dead relationship.
Run Away From Your Problems
What if your problem goes away if you stop trying to solve the problem you think you have?
The Martian INFJ: Least Likely to be an INFJ
The Martian INFJ is one of the least INFJesque of INFJs. They wouldn’t often be identified with INFJ MBTI type, but make no mistake they are, so let’s get on it boy.
The Jupiterian INFJ: God’s Gift to Heaven
The Jupiterian INFJ is very gifted but they coast too much on their potential, often without developing it. The Dude is actually a very good example of a Jupiter INFJ. Look how charmed he is. Look how he enters life and there is this LARGER PLAN going on that he stumbles into. He is the […]
How to attract and keep an INFJ male
One of my readers recently asked me a question regarding INFJ male compatibility, which turned into a neat conversation that I will reproduce below Stellar Maze reader: What does a woman need to be like in order to attract and keep an INFJ guy? What personality type and what should she do in order to […]
The Saturnian INFJ: A Conscience Made of Cardboard?
Though you might not know it from reading Stellar Maze, there are actually INFJs that have their shit together. Yeah, they don’t have any of the emotional problems that I speak of in the Fi id series. I mean, they do, but well this is exactly what Saturn gives, the ability to rise above that shit, and take the world by storm.
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